A lot of parents are over protective. They are worried that children are going to get hurt on the playground or get hurt in the car by a child who is not on their best behavior. It has become so common that it now has become a social norm.
The overprotective mentality is as dangerous as parents themselves. If you don’t have a certain type of parent, you can easily fall into this trap. For example, if you are a parent with a high-strung parent, you will find yourself constantly on the defensive, often getting criticized, and not getting any points in a game that you are not playing. If you are a parent with a less-strung parent, you could easily fall into the same trap.
This is where the “parents are always right and kids are always wrong” mentality comes into play. Sure, parents are important, but you need to understand that they are not the reason why you are playing something. You need to be playing for yourself. If you aren’t, you can find yourself being pulled into a game that you are not interested in, and you may even find yourself losing points because of it.
Let’s make an analogy here. When you are playing a game, you are playing for yourself, and you are playing for the other players. You need to understand that the other players are not going to give you the game if you are not interested. If you dont want to play, you dont need to play.
On the flip side of this, if you are in the game, you are in it for the other players. If you arent interested, you arent.
If you make the wrong choice that you don’t want to do, then you’re going to get penalised by the game system. But as you make the right choice, you will get rewarded. This is really important because the game system is not about you, it’s about the other players. But if the other players think that you are not interested, you are going to lose points. The game system is a reward system, not a goal.
One reason I loved playing the game was because it was such a great way to reward you for making the right choice. So if you make the wrong choice, you get penalised, but you can make a second choice if you want to. This is really important because the game system is not about you, its about the other players.
It is, however, about the other players. One of the worst parts of playing deathmatch is that you are constantly having to deal with the other players’ feelings. Especially when you’re in a group of 4. And since the game is about a bunch of amnesiacs killing their way through a day of partying, there are some major emotions involved. The one thing you’ll definitely want to remember is to always keep your cool.
When I was little, I had a friend who was a bully. He used to say, ‘I don’t like you.’ or ‘I hate you.’ and that hurt my feelings so bad I kept a log of exactly what he said. And when I was a kid, when I was scared or upset, I would write down what he said. For me, that’s when I learned the true meaning behind a word.
I’m not saying that you should never write things down. You should write things down. But if you do, it may mean that you actually are a little bit protective of your child. And you might want to take that into account as you plan how best to handle his mood swings.