Our mothers were tough to be around. They may have had their challenges, but they were also very loving. Mothers who were not tough enough to be around were often unkind, unkind to others, and unkind to themselves. It’s important to remember who you are and keep your positive energy flowing.
Mother’s can be tough but they usually aren’t mean. They’re there to help you be strong, confident, and confident in yourself. As the mother of a child with ADHD, I know how difficult it can be to have to sit down and be supportive every single day. But we must remember that we are all moms, and that we all love our children with all of our hearts.
I just read the above quotes in the news about the recent death of a mother who was taking care of her children with a mental health diagnosis. My heart goes out to the family and I think its sad that they were forced to go through this because of their diagnosis. But that is not what is important, what is important is that we all keep our positive energy flowing and be kind to ourselves.
I think it’s a great idea to have a few supportive friends when you’re going through a difficult time. But I also think it’s important to remember that we’re all human. We all have things we need to work on, and we all need to take time to have fun and reconnect with our loved ones.
I agree with you, I think that sometimes we need to let it all out and be more open about our feelings. When I was depressed I would often hide under my bed and cry for no reason. I would also get really angry at someone for no reason. I knew I needed to let it all out, but I didn’t know how to do it right.
Not sure what you mean by “I didnt know how to do it right,” but I think this is something that many of us struggle with. This is a difficult subject to talk about, because if you don’t talk about it openly it becomes difficult to change. Sometimes people say “Oh I’m the only one who has the problem!” and that’s true.
I believe it is important to talk about it openly. It is one of the reasons I started this blog. We are not just talking about the problems of the kids, but also about all the other problems that affect us as parents. When you talk about what is in your heart and about your feelings for your child, you are giving them the power to make you do things you don’t want to.
When you get to the point of saying something like, “I love my kids, and I know they don’t want to be here, but they need to be here.” there is a little bit of a self-awareness bubble going on. And when you say it, it can feel very real for most parents. You are acknowledging the feelings of the one who loves them, and their need for you. It doesn’t mean you are being passive aggressive.
I am guilty of this. I think that I love my kid as much as possible, but I have to make a conscious effort to push them to do things that I dont want them to do because I am so sick of living a life that I cannot do anything about. I think that you are getting a sense of control. That you are being very controlling, which is cool.
I can understand this. I have a young daughter to be very controlling, and she is very controlling, but I can see the value in this. It means that you are being very assertive and honest with them. You are stating that you are in control and that you are giving them a voice. You are also acknowledging that they are right and that you are doing what you need to do.